Hi all known and unknown friends! I wanted to
write my story here for a long time. It is really trivial thing to read on the
net I have an affair with a married man.
I know that many of you are going to call me
names and tell me who terrible is that I’m destroying a family but I am also
sure that many of you will support me. We met in the most trivial way via the
Internet. It turned out that we had so many things in common, hobbies,
interests, personality...
To clarify we both lived in the same city,
but we are born in small towns. I didn’t intentionally seduce him; we didn’t
plan all of this it just happened. Later on he told me he had never cheated on
his wife for the 10 in years in which they were married. And now he assures me
that he wanted to divorce her and marry me. I am 29 years old, divorced with no
children and he has 2.
He is very kind and considerate, but I'm
afraid of all the possible consequences. I want to be with him but I do not
want his children to live without a father. I'm afraid that I will not meet his
expectations and he will someday leave me. We see each other almost every day,
our work is linked.
I do not know what to do. Everything is great
between us, but on the other hand there are his marriage, his wife, his
children. Early in our relationship he said that he would get a divorce but
still he does nothing. It seems to me that I'm not insistent enough.
Tell me your opinion and what you think is
best for all of us.
the bitter truth is >>>>He isn't planning or going to leave his family. This happens all the time...they don't leave. He likes your company has his mistress but sorry...not enough to make him leave his family. He would have left long ago if he really anted to.
ReplyDeleteI agree with that. another consideration is; if you push him and he eventually does leave his family. couple of months or years after, don't be surprised if he blames you for it and starts ill treating you. you would really hate that. that's gonna suck big time
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