Love "People" not "Things"

It is an open secret that many people have lost the basic characteristics of humanity in them. It's more like a fact in this era we live in.

 

"People were created to be loved, 

Things were created to be used,
The reason the world is in chaos is
because things are been love and people are been used."

The quality or nature of being human, being kind to other people, or being responsible for a sane society is suddenly leaving more humans by the day! This has been happening through different phases and processes. When you consider the increasing amount of rape, theft, murder, quest for power, segregation, psychopathy and sociopaths, threats to war among others, you'll see how glaring this secret is.
 

The generic humane affection given to other humans is now been shared with electronic gadgets, automobiles, sophisticated lifestyles at the expense of hurting other humans and in often cases taking neighbours, friends or countrymen's lives. Many comfortably refer to this as the survival of the fittest. How convenient?  

In relationships with people, both the intimate and communal, do not turn people to 'means' just to get to your desired acquisition. Many are engaged in intimate relationships just because of what they could get from the other person. That's so parasitic.
 

¤ Devote love to people-humans not things/objects.

¤ Never forget objects/things lose value over time after acquiring them.

¤ Refrain from putting people in bad circumstances, either emotionally or physically, for personal gains.

Gandhi's view on humanity.

Humans First

Take care of humans - family first!
Money comes and goes!!

Life and Mistakes

It is commonly said that "if you haven't made mistakes, then you haven't lived". Quite true, I'll say. Human life is so error/mistake prone; basically because we don't know the future and most times can't predict the unintended consequence of our actions. 

Wise men say "making mistakes isn't stupid, but making mistakes without learning from them is what makes the stupid".

¤ Sit back and think about some mistakes you've made in life and what you learnt from them.

Making intentional blunders on the other hand do not count as mistakes! Simply because you knew the consequence(s) of those action(s) but still went ahead and acted a fool.

¤ Mistakes are never intentional.

With this clear knowledge that mistakes are not intentional, it would only be unfair not to forgive a mistake you were at the receiving end of the consequence(s).

¤ Forgive. You can do it!

Be Angry But Don't Sin

Anger is an essential part of being human. People are taught to deny themselves anger, and in this, they are actually opening themselves up to hate. 

The more you deny yourself the freedom to be angry, the more you will hate. Let yourself be angry, and hate will disintegrate, and when hate disintegrates, forgiveness prevails! 

The more you deny that you are angry, in attempts to be "holy" the more inhuman you will become, and the more inhuman you will become, the harder it will be to forgive. 

On the other hand, "violent anger" or "extreme anger" should be tamed and avoided.

Bottom line: Yes be angry; but while angry, commit no offence against religious or moral laws, neither exhibit any action that is or is felt to be highly reprehensible!

What is life?

Life is one big road with lots of signs. So when you riding through the ruts, don't complicate your mind.

You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life. You learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning and start learning.

Life has enough problems; therefore, share the road with friends.

We're born alone,we live alone,we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for d moment that we're not alone.

Different degree of inclination towards Fashion, work - career, family life

To live is to suffer to survive; to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering; to survive is to live a life.

Power in The Touch of Love

Two twins were in their respective incubators and one was not expected to live. A hospital nurse broke the hospital rules and placed them in one incubator. When they were placed together, the healthier of them threw an arm over her sister in an endearing. The other baby’s heart stabilized and temperature rose to normal.