Anger is an essential part of being human. People are taught to deny themselves anger, and in this, they are actually opening themselves up to hate.
The more you deny yourself the freedom to be angry, the more you will hate. Let yourself be angry, and hate will disintegrate, and when hate disintegrates, forgiveness prevails!
The more you deny that you are angry, in attempts to be "holy" the more inhuman you will become, and the more inhuman you will become, the harder it will be to forgive.
On the other hand, "violent anger" or "extreme anger" should be tamed and avoided.
Bottom line: Yes be angry; but while angry, commit no offence against religious or moral laws, neither exhibit any action that is or is felt to be highly reprehensible!
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