1. Your relationship should be priority: Being in a relationship requires attention, care, nurture and dedication. This here by necessitates you increase your devotion to your relationship (including your partner) above your individual wants. This makes your partner feel you value what you both have and eliminates insecurities.
2. Equilibrate partners’ inputs: 6Both partners must be actively involved in the progress and growth of the relationship. It’s not expected for one partner to work and run head over heels while the other is reluctant. The saying “it takes two to tango” applies here. When a partner is pulling as much weight, it questions his interest and credibility which breeds insecurity.
3. ‘Hang out’ and ‘hang around each other’ often: Difference in schedule may make this very hard and to the edge of unlikely but “where there is a will, there is way”. Hence, make a way… and repeat it as often as possible. This cures insecurity faster than you could imagine.
4. Honesty is fundamental: Nothing other than trustworthiness should be the bedrock of a relationship. You partner has to ‘see, smell and taste’ your sincerity to the relationship. How do look at the other gender when your partner is (and even isn’t) around you? This is a perfect measure of your level of trustworthiness which either alienates or creates insecurity.
5. Never neglect your partner: The emotional, social, spiritual and physical fraction of your partner’s life consistently needs your association just like you need your partner’s in your life. Therefore, never neglect your partner in all these spheres.
Endeavour to value the need for personal growth and consistently work on overcoming your individual insecurities together.
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