Porn Makes Men Hopeless In Bed – Research Study

It's a known fact that most men watch porn. But are you one of those guys who regularly get their dose of viewing adult material on the internet?

And in doing so, have you become sort of a global citizen in the world of porn? If yes, then you could be heading for trouble, especially if you’re under the impression that viewing things people do in videos can actually make you better in the sack. According to a research study, watching online porn can affect men’s performance in the bedroom. 

The findings of the study states that exposure to porn is desensitising young men to such an extent that they are unable to get excited by ordinary sexual activities. This is the result of over stimulation of dopamine (a neurotransmitter that activates the pleasure centre in the brain) on a continuous basis by watching pornography. 

In the process, a paradoxical effect gets 

generated whereby the brain loses its ability to respond to normal levels of dopamine when it gets used to a higher spike of dopamine. This means that individuals need experiences of an extreme nature to get sexually aroused. 

Let’s cite the case of 31-year-old Abhinav Varma (name changed), an IT professional who’s totally hooked on to watching porn online and has been married since the past four years. “Like most regular guys, I too have been watching porn since I was a teenager. However, with the passage of time there’s such easy availability of a variety of porn on the internet to suit everybody’s tastes. In fact, I prefer watching porn than having sex with my wife,” he confesses. Varma and his wife are seeking marital counselling as a result of his addiction to viewing porn.

As for treatment, Dr Gambhire suggests desensitising the patient, i.e. staying away from porn. Counselling and sometimes medicines too are prescribed.

How You and I encourage Rape

It’s a new incident about rape everyday somehow somewhere in the world. The cases of child and adult rape have gone beyond humane or bearable rates. This is rather not an animalistic deed but a monstrous act. Diverse cases of rape has been heard of ranging from infants to aged; religious heads to well-known hardened criminals; sick to pregnant; premeditated to impromptu; during daytime and nightfall. Rape is constantly defacing our society and our approach as humans is somewhere around nonchalant and cowardice. 

In comparison to our approach toward other challenges like economic problems-unemployment, environmental issues –global warming, eradicating rape is receiving too little attention and everyone is responsible.

1. More rapes cases keep of rape popping up all over the world especially among the defenceless children but we are yet to sit and think of the causes and take painstaking decisions to stop it.

2. Judicial verdicts on rape have not been equivalent to the crime committed. It’s more like giving the “monsters” a slap on the wrist and releasing them back to the society.

3. The media is not and cannot report everything on it. It can be boldly said that over 70% of rapes been perpetrated go unreported. 

4. Most men and women only show 'vocal hate' to the reputation that rapists have given the society but no changes probably because their families are safe

5. The lifestyles we are adopting in the name of “urbanisation and civilisation” ruins the dignity in mankind but we act negligent and unaffected. 

Word for thought: If rape continues at this rate, are you sure in 20 years’ time, your close family would have that clear record?

Rapes are in schools, homes and neighbourhood, workplace, entertainment centres, street corners, public facilities and anywhere else you could think of. It is increased by indecent dressing, lack of home training, psychoactive substances, alcohol consumption, offensive videos from entertainment industries, increasing pornographic materials, and zero foresight about the future repercussions. 

STOP RAPE! 

SPEAK AGAINST IT, ACT AGAINST IT!

FIGHT ANYTHING THAT ENCOURAGES RAPE BECAUSE IT THREATENS THE DECENCY OF OUR SOCIETY.

Identifying Sex Addiction. Are you...?

With “sex” been the order of the day on every medium possible, addiction is increasing without victims knowing. Sex addicts have somehow replaced emotional connections with the “fetishes” of sex.
When a person goes all about sex even when it brings public retributions to him/her which a nominal person would abstain from, then the urge has gotten to the addictive stage. 

Sex addicts put their jobs, families, public figure, health risk and many other things in jeopardy but still continue surfing the internet for porn materials, harassing and carelessly seeking affairs with neighbours and co-workers, revealing their bodies in public, masturbating and such with inability to stop. You want to know a sex addict?

1. Secret hideous sex lives: Having scandalous covert sex live isn’t just an attribute of a sex addict but a stimulator to getting more drenched in this disorder. Sneaking to masturbate, have affairs, visit nude joints or meet up with prostitutes are red flags. 

2. Uncontrollable masturbation: Some believe rare masturbation is not bad; however that may prove, masturbating when it has detriments that are serious but you still cannot stop yourself is definitely full blown problem. Many are always swamped with the thought irrespective of the place or time.

3. Porn addiction: Many also believe scarcely indulging in some pornographic video with spouse has its advantage, but when a person ‘has to intentionally’ interrupt an activity just to watch for the purpose of satisfying a sexual urge, then that is an addiction.

4. Zero interest in person after initial sexual experience: More and more people find themselves less and less interest in a person after they have had sexual intercourse with them; not because they discovered an habit that puts them off, but just because the sexual mystery is gone and it’s on to the next available person (victim). This is a textbook characteristic of sexual addiction.

5. Always sexually preoccupied: For sex addicts, every thought, action, communication, relationship and motive has sex all over it. 

6. Lack of satisfaction: many people in relationships misinterpret sexual addictions for the urge for excitement. You have everything going fine and partner spends quality time with you in bed but you still cannot restrain yourself from sneaking to prostitutes, having affairs with colleagues and related issues (for sex)is a clear sign you are an addict.

7. Belittle repercussion of hideous sexual acts: you have been warned officially at work, school, neighbourhood and religious centres but you just don’t seem to stop it. You might want to but not just able to…and you keep taking life treating risks just for sex; that’s definitely an addiction. 

8. You spy: Sex addicts intentionally wait and do things just to catch a glimpse of a neck person. Shame isn’t enough to stop you. Some keep stalking while others climb trees. This is common, sounds funny when the society talks about it but it’s a stone throw away from ruin. 

9. Abandon important tasks for sex: Many give up important responsibilities that shouldn’t be postponed for a chance to have sex. Addiction got to them.

10. Sex makes them feel accomplished: The reaction sex gives sex addicts is like making them feel ‘high’ and denying them the sex is like refusing them a life-saving need. That is addiction.