6 Signs A Lady Is Immature

1. She chews gum everywhere: Even when Alex Fagusion, the former Manchester United coach was still active, he had limit of gums and where he chews it also. For heaven's sake, how on earth will a grown up lady chew gum like its a science competition? This is far from hilarious!

2. She's too gullible: Many people are been moved by the society, people or trend. However, gullibility is an offence! When you are easily tricked by men and cheated, then you start crying "all men are the same/wicked", please grow up... intellectually.

3. She takes you one step backwards: This stems from excessive bills she necessitate for her guy. She demands this and that, she's never satisfied, she takes anything that seems appealing to her from your apartment, she never shares in your dream, when you intend taking her out, she probably brings along her friends etc. How then will a guy plan well for himself?

4. She dresses almost unclad: Do they think they look more attractive, sexy and "marketable" when they dress almost unclad? "Let's call a spade a spade, such dresses make them look like a slot, prostitute and not a wife material." - Ebenezar Who told you that you'll easily get husbands when you put on such dresses? But, this however doesn't say one should dress like a beggar! Just a simple, classy but decent dress should do.

5. She uses fake/unknown identity to test her new Boy friend: This is common with teenage /young girls who don't want to miss-date (date a guy who flirts) or just to establish a trust on him. Girls who do this fall within the ages of 16-24yrs. They use/buy lots of sim cards, change voices to test their boy friend. Many go as far as getting another facebook identity to chat him up just to see if he flirts or not. Little do they know that these hide and seek game provoke mature guys/men who happen to be their boy friend.


6. She makes inconsistent decisions: It is often said, don't make a promise when happy and a decision when angry. She decides on this today but before Paul and Peter flies away, she's back to what she decided against. She however doesn't stop at that but changes decisions, makes promises but however return back to her former state. This isn't helpful in a relationship.

Incidents & Opinions: I Don't Like My Girlfriend's Mode Of Dressing.

I so much hate the way my girlfriend dresses. I've complained over and over again but it seems I'm not getting through to her. She doesn't think a woman can be sexy without showing body parts. Her clothes are skimpy, trashy and disgusting. They are all either too short, too tight, bosom on display, her favourite are transparent clothes. Those kinds of clothes are fine if you're standing on the streets but not when you are going out with your man. I get very uncomfortable when we go out. She likes all the attention she gets from people when we go out but I am embarrassed. I do not want to be seen in public with a girl dressed that way but because I care a lot about her I still haven't broken up with her. What can I do about this lady? I really want her in my life. Minus the dressing, everything else about her is perfect. My kind of woman. Please advise.

*culled from LIB*

 

Life Counsel:

- When you first laid eyes on her, she was dressing just this way, and you had no problem with her sense of dressing, so why complain now?
- When you started dating her, she was dressing just this way, and you became attracted to her, but yet STILL had no problem with her sense of dressing, so why complain now?
- Now she is your girlfriend and you suddenly realise she dresses indecently?!

- You have to take this girl for ALL she is and WHO she is, and nothing else. You cannot pick what you like about her, and ask her to change what you don't.

 

There's no point in trying to change her because that's what will come back in lighting speed when you guys have disagreements. I'll say just accept her like this or move on with your life.

Golden Tip:

 The only time change is good in your partner is when and if he/she chooses to change for personal reasons.

Shifted hips!

The society is gradually making her demands and people are running head over heels to meet up. The type of hair you make, eye lash fixing, cloths you wear, shoes you buy, designs on your face, and other bodily fixes are been corrupted.
Why not be you? Instead of trying to look like everyone else, avoid the public disgrace and be unique, simple, beautiful and radiant!

Counsel: Sex, Appearance, Respect, Men and Ladies

Law of Attraction

 

It really is what it is. However people treat you, before blaming them, you need to conduct a self-evaluation.

Execute a comprehensive and honest self-check; ask yourself "Am I not responsible for the disrespect people throw at me?"

Why do "purpose-less guys" (hooligans and thugs) whistle/approach you on the street, look at yourself and check; "Do I present myself like an aimless girl?"

Is your boss pestering you for sex and related indecent interactions? Assess yourself - What am I doing that's making this man think so lowly of me?

(Probably by dressing, manner of speaking or places you go to)

90% of the mess we get are attracted by us!

A queen is awarded her respect because her everything demands it. That’s what she attracts to herself.

 

You want to be clean? Stop attracting the dirts

Qualities That Makes Women Irresistible to Men

• Personal hygiene: Let it be known to all ladies that ‘from a look at you while walking on the street, men can know your hygiene level.’ You want know you the spots? The back of your foot; your nails; your hair; your teeth, your armpit (when wearing armless blouses), your dress, your smell (fragrance/body odor) and how sanitized you are to keep sweats off.
• Smiling: This is a facial expression that has a control on the whole body. Smiling makes a woman more beautiful, approachable, looking confident, cheerful and radiant. So smile; not because you’ve had it easy and satisfied but because it brings the best out of you. Flash a smile; it hides the fear and timidity. A seasonal smile to a man makes him feel accepted, comfortable around you and keeps you on his mind.
• Listening: Whining and nagging are opposite to the good quality of listening in a lady. It is rare to have a lady who whines, nags and listens. Rarely do men and women want to listen during conversation these days; therefore, when a man meets a woman who listens and isn’t eager to ‘take over’ or ‘dominate’ the conversation, it interests him. Note that this isn’t for a woman not to have her opinion and voice it but right way and time.
• Femininity: The girlishness or lady ladylikeness in a woman is an aurora that just attracts men. Don’t fight it; it’s just the way men are made. Femininity cuts across dressing, carriage, comportment, speaking, and all other lifestyles. It’s either you are male or female; you can’t be both and there’s not spot in between.  That been said, men do women not men. (You might be thinking what about gays; well, this conversation and classification does not include them).
• No drama: Men dislike drama queens; especially does that act to be noticed in the public. Let your saneness, charisma, modest dressing, fragrance and decency speak for you. 

These are the top merits that sway a man and makes him stare carelessly when he knows he cant have you.

 

What makes a woman a ‘Lady’??

After long deliberation and considerations about what manner of female fits to be addressed as a "lady", it became un-debatable that the world is running out of ladies!

From chronology of the word ‘lady’, it had always been attached to grown women who have been nurtured with moral manners regards specific areas of life. Other words or phrases often used to describe the word “lady” include:

 

•Civil •Cultured •Polite •Well Mannered •Refined in Upbringing •Polite •Standard of behaviour •Honour •Well Spoke •Behaving in Dignity •Steady Companion

Noticeably and understandably, comportments, attitudes and style of dressing change over time; however, a lady’s Sophistication, Courteousness and Mannerism in the public and in her home is undying. Why don’t you use the following points to examine your “lady-like” status?

1. Femininity: Women have an original manner of existing and response in all circumstances. This is based on natural combination of the female body properties resulting to behaviours and qualities which her reasoned to be characteristic of females; and how a woman chooses to use her body depletes the initial signs identifying her has a lady or not. The feminine features on and in your body makes a woman; how you respect and use them makes you a lady... or not

2. Sophistication: These days, the advent of the “hip-hop” world depletes ‘lady-likeness’ has an ancient unfashionable lifestyle. Being elegant in all aspect of your life makes you a lady. A woman’s posture while siting and standing, carriage while walking, choice of words while talking are what makes you lady the lady we see. A "bitch" isn't a lady! Many females call themselves that, which simple means they have personally ruled out any lady etiquette in their lives.

3. Cleanliness: This is an undisputable and necessary quality in a lady. Here's the joker: many have accustomed themselves to appear clean and hygienic when in the public but away from the eyes of the world, they are the drastic opposite. Quite a shame because the cleanliness of a lady transcends all areas of her life; from the strands of her hairs to her breath, teeth, house, personal effects...even to the content and organisation of her hand bag! These are prerequisites. 

4. Health Psychology: Self-confidence, patience, security within her own skin, charity, contentment and trustworthiness kicks out fear, dishonesty, 'over' dependence, aggressiveness and brutality. “They are talking about me” syndrome has no place in a real lady; even her virtues becomes a subject on every lips especially females who are too weak to attain her level of discipline. 

5. Respect, submission and yet intelligence and strong-minded:  It isn’t easy to have the combination of these four attributes. Yet, a lady is known to be respectful and submissive and amidst these, she’s intelligent and not easy to fool.

These makes a lady complete, and as a bonus;

• Ladies gossip with class; not like mice passing cheese among themselves;
• Ladies don’t use profane words;
• Ladies don’t talk with food in their mouths;
• Ladies excuse themselves from gatherings with courtesy; 
• Ladies rarely lose their cool. Most often, they are calm and collected especially in the public;
• Ladies don’t over eat or overdrink;
• Ladies are courteous to introduce who they are with when someone else approaches;
• Ladies don’t find it hard to say the words “Please”, “thank you”, “I’m sorry” and “no, thank you” without feeling a part of them have been removed;
• Ladies increase their knowledge not only with gossips but reading resource materials to increase intelligence.

With all these, does the society still hold “lady-likeness” with high esteem??

Do you dress like a “lady”?

Some say “dress like a lady even if you don’t behave like one”. Your dressing might save you from some initial deserved insults/assaults on the street. The campaign on harassments and assaults are been insulted by comments like “her dressing welcomed it”. We all see lowlife guys whistle or say insulting words at females and laugh just because they (the girls) dress too revealing and or tight. These “express approvals” are not for looking decent, impressive and beautiful but for feeding their libido for free. Don’t be confused, if you as a lady dress next to naked and pass walk down the street, those that would approve would approve but not because they’ll be proud to associate with you or show you off as someone they are related to.

Simple but Elegant

It is permit-able to say decent, modest and neatly dressed ladies never witness this. Is the reason by any means a secret? Here are some simple dressing guidelines that bread respect:

Modestly stylish

·         Dress appropriate, according to your body-size, shape and age. Please, avoid the temptation of squeezing yourself into dresses. If it’s a beautiful dress but not your size, drop it. Forcing it on brings more embarrassments and disrespect than compliment.

·         Ensure your clothes are clean, smell good and pressed! This is very important to appear sane let alone ‘ladylike’.

·         Select cloths and styles that pronounce and protect you femininity at once; most dresses these modern days pronounce femininity but don’t protect it.

·         Clean hair, nails, feet and good body odour. These are also part of your dressing and they embrace a man.

·         Ladies do not need or use excessive accessories; extreme use of facial accessories make you look scary and ugly. Often, a natural beauty is better than facial artistry.

A notable thought; no genuine man would smile when his lady is public attacked as such. It is just embarrassing and most blame goes mothers, followed by the entertainment industries.

DECENCY IS EXPENSIVE AND SIMPLICITY IS GOLDEN