Wednesday 2 October 2013

Guys: How to make her fall in love

Yes you have a good thing going; the obvious signs of care, dedication and commitment are pouring coming from both ends, then it’s there are steps for you as a man to ensure you seal up the deal continually and keep her affection for present and growing. 
  • Been mature covers almost everything and governs all interactions in a relationship. If a man is mature, hardly would any lady want to leave him or won’t try pleasing him. Maturity helps to know when to apologise and how to move a relationship forward. It shows confidence and wisdom.
  • Everyone has to sacrifice because of love and as a man; it is an incomparable way to show your lady you put her first. It is also a mature response to other people’s desires.
  • Providing security leaves a lady feeling whatever the situation is, I can run to him and count on him to always be on my side. The same secure feeling comes from the man that wants the relationship to grow.
  • Mistakes happen and there are circumstances you won’t initially understand; therefore, you need to chill! Do blow problems out of proportion.
  • Care in act and not just with words; move yourself to make her feel better when down, sick or moody.
  • Balance the time you spend with her and your guys. Too much time would suffocate her and too little time would dehydrate your relationship. Plus you need have other associations outside your relationship.
  • Sharing and most importantly requesting for advice not necessarily because you don’t know what to do but because you want her to feel her input matters.
  • You need to be funny and relax around her sometimes. Don’t be a cautious of the detail or every action or word that transpires. She must be able to act a freely with you.
  • Mouth odours, body odours, rough, unshaved and unkempt hairs are repulsive! Bad hygiene makes anyone want to run. If you have that, better erase the habit before getting close at all. Be neat and clean.
  • Sending short messages once or twice a day shows you remember her during your day and that comforts her that your affection towards her goes beyond temporary.
  • Let your eyes trail your lady and not every half naked female walking around you. You don’t get carried away by other females if your lady is on my mind and your love is with her.  There’s a way you look that makes her comfy and happy that ‘look’ is hers.
  • Be masculine to protect and gentleman to accompany. Always looking out for your lady gets and retains her unreserved love.
  • Say good words to her and compliment her. Hey, you better believe the compliments too! If you believe the compliments, you would treat her as such which would make her believe and nothing else would matter to her than you.
  • Always listen to your lady's complains, obsessions, desires, interests and fairy-tales, Listen! Then you can know her better, help her, make her happy and get her love unreservedly.
  • Don’t run away from her parents. If indeed you have good intentions towards her and your love is real with hopes of growing, there’s no need walking behind the curtain or hiding. If they and she don’t mind, why not meet them when situations presents?


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