Its safe to a good extent to say all relationships lose their passion at some point. The naturally occurring obsession that had once driven them seems to burn out. This happens at different time frames for different people; for some it might be a month after commencement with for others, it could be four months after. But the point is that time comes when all seems still and boring. On that note; blessed are those that read these posts, for to them shall wisdom be impacted.
Awareness of this fact rather prompts a wise and 'ambitious lover' to watch out for this passion drought session and consciously rain down affection in order to grow the relationship continually. There are various methods of pouring this rain and some of them are:
Co-activity: Doing specific things together grows the relationship. Starting from exercises-yoga to classes - ceramic making class; such are good and its not the activity that does the bonding but times spent together.
Romance: As old as it might be is as effective as it is. Get-aways, vacations, surprise outings and such have always and would always keep spicing up the relationship.
Common interest: The discussion of shared interests would make the two people talk to each other, (possibly) smile and laugh together and enhances the psychological bond that eases them around each other and gives special preference to partner. This discussion could range from neighbours funny habit to gardening, landscaping, latest movies, or recent book read.
Time to start thing about how to grow and nature your relationship.
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