Never Say These Five Things to Your Ex.

Whether you were dumped, cheated or misled, there are some conversations that are unnecessary to have with your ex. More often than not, they end up been regretted actions on the long run. Do not do the following.

1. Don’t Send Mean Texts: Pretending you don’t care however he/she has treated you reflects back some of the pain you feel. On the other hand, when you send messages, texts or make calls to expound your ‘hurting’, it make he/she feel superior and psychologically helps them move on while you’re stuck.  So, don’t ever text him saying that you regret being with him; don’t ever text him in anger; and don’t call to give a piece of your mind. Make him/her think that what he/she does doesn’t bother you at all.

2. Don’t Ever Apologize: Unless you were the one that cheated or something, you have no reason to be sorry. If he cheated on you, don’t be sorry that he cheated on you. If he hurt you, don’t be sorry for being hurt. Whatever you do, do not apologize to him/her. Unnecessary apology makes it obvious you are yet to move on and you’re thinking about him/her.

3. Don’t Ever Hang Out With Each Other Alone/Intentionally: You guys are broken up. There’s no need to hang out anymore. For one, it could be really awkward. It’s going to be weird being with him/her and not calling each other babe or any of the nicknames. It’s going to be weird not holding hands or hug him the same way you used to. You might even be taken advantage of you and be used you physically and then you guys could go back to being strangers. Is that what you want? No. You don’t want to be used then forgotten.

 

4. Never Tell Him or Her “I Still Love You”: Usually, this doesn’t come to people’s advantage…especially when there are signs of an uninterested partner. They will make you believe that they feel the same way when in reality, they probably don’t. There is the high possibility of your partner confessing love for you but just to use you physically and mentally hurt you.

5. Never Tell Him You Miss Him: It’s human to notice and feel a difference/change in your routine of life. The person you speak to daily, laugh with and share your day with. However, you’ll adjust. It happens to everyone like that. There’s a reason for the breakup…look for way to rebrand and remodel your life. That’s the path to happiness.