"She is about getting married and am now into another relationship but she is still insisting we continue having sex till after her marriage. As i type this, she is seriously disturbing me. She was very nice but i just can't do it bc of my conscience, putting my self in the guys shoe. Moreover, chances r that she may still want same even after marriage as she's been complaining that her guy dosnt satisfy her as i did. What shud i do......am confused"
Counsel: Men should observe a very important and helpful rule when it comes to interaction with an Ex who is about to or already married. Become extremely platonic friends.
Do not entertain hearing stories and incidents from her marriage, too long chats, let alone invites to heinous sexual advances!
This isn't a confusing situation; it's about choosing from two distant options like north and south pole. It's about extreme right and extreme wrong.
Coming to think of it; for your Ex to be getting into a lifetime relationship she knows for certainty she isn't of and won't be happy in, she needs to grow up and get psychologically! While you need to run away from her!
In order to prevent yourself from falling into the temptation, you should tell 'someone mature' about it instead of bottling it in to yourself.
Friends at the bar might tell you to be a "man" and enjoy the advances while you can...but those are foolish talks that have high possibility of landing you in regrets later in life.
The Choice is yours...but remember there's lifetime joy for the wise.
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In order to prevent yourself from falling into the temptation, you should tell 'someone mature' about it instead of bottling it in to yourself.
Friends at the bar might tell you to be a "man" and enjoy the advances while you can...but those are foolish talks that have high possibility of landing you in regrets later in life.
The Choice is yours...but remember there's lifetime joy for the wise.
Post your comments... someone wants your opinion
To Ask or Share experiences: mailadef@gmail.com
You need not be confused, follow the verdict of ur conscience by staying away from her cos she will always want more even atfer marriage.
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