At this age bracket, you don’t place your chips easy and would really not want to get into games with “unserious” men. In many situations, you would need to avoid some emotional reactions that portray you to be insecure, choice-less and most of all desperate. Here are some emphasises you need ponder.
- This is the time you give attention to ‘men’ and not ‘boys’. Men are in search of ladies they can marry while boys are in most cases interested in passing some time before thinking of settling down. There are men that are really ready for a settled life. These men have the basics settled. I’m referring to finances, apartment, stable job and cool manners.
- It’s so better you rather marry a couple of years late than getting married to the wrong person. Many ladies are hooked to the wrong man that hurts them because they married an idealised version of the person they thought they knew. You need time to see beyond what you want to see in a man, therefore, take it slow. Yes you have grown wiser, but you need to be CERTAIN you are not been hasty. Read the signs and take them serious.
- Even though you are getting married late (than you’ll have wished to), you haven’t had had too much alone time. You need to give yourself quality time alone doing things you love and your partner definitely needs it. If you feel he’ll stray away if he’s not usually with you, marrying him doesn’t stop him and that is even worse. Balance up the time you spend with him.
- Some ladies eventually find a man that loves them and they immediately begin operation “moulding him” because they believe “they don’t have enough time”. First, you don’t “moulding him”, because he’s either compactible to you or not. Also, a man isn’t a system you just ‘download’ an operating system into. Finally, sharing what you want, how you live, your dreams and aspirations and listening to him is all you need. Don’t force him to take your sport or watch your type of movie; marriage isn’t a stage to change his personality.
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