20 Reasons People Have Sex

Stressed out? Have sex. Stress reduction is one of the leading reasons, particularly men, say they have sex. The other most frequently cited reasons for having sex include:

• Boosting mood and relieving depression
• Duty
• Enhancement of power
• Enhancement of self-concept
• Experiencing the power of one's partner
• Feeling loved by your partner
• Fostering jealousy
• Improving reputation or social status
• Making money
• Making babies
• Need for affection
• Nurturance
• Partner novelty
• Peer pressure or pressure from partner
• Pleasure
• Reducing sex drive
• Revenge
• Sexual curiosity
• Showing love to your partner
• Spiritual transcendence

Understanding why people seek sex is not always a simple task. Young men and women typically haven't been in very committed relationships and are in the process of discovering their sexuality. Their answers to "why do you have sex" are often greatly tied to the image of themselves and their social relationships. This can change over time.

Many teens are increasingly engaging in sexual activities and this has to be discouraged. Some people erroneously believe giving a free pass to "teenage sex" reduces some crimes and makes it consensual. However, the disadvantages far out weighs the advantages both in the nearest and distant future.   
 

But such knowledge can improve a couple's sex life. Understanding these differences in motivations is very important. It helps us understand what's going on in the sexual relationship and treat sexual disorders. Very often, you find the source of the problem can be traced to the particular motivation.

If you need help dealing with a sex disorder or addiction, you can find a qualified sex therapist in your area through medical organizations.