Best Speech? Short & Direct though..

Life is Hard, but..

Indeed life seems truly hard; because right options and decisions have turn out to be difficult to select and live by. 

However, a right options would always remain 'RIGHT' because they bring the desired end result. Whether to choose the 'Right Option' or not is an option in almost everything we do starting from our waking up to start a day till when we decide to end the day at night.

Out of a thousand and one right and wrong decisions to make in a day, just one wrong decision to a crucial incident has the ability of ruining a considerable portion of a person's life. 

How decisions affect other people's life is another subject worthy of deep consideration. 

Life is hard...

But not impossible!

Make the right decisions and you'll reap the reward someday soon.  

Porn Makes Men Hopeless In Bed – Research Study

It's a known fact that most men watch porn. But are you one of those guys who regularly get their dose of viewing adult material on the internet?

And in doing so, have you become sort of a global citizen in the world of porn? If yes, then you could be heading for trouble, especially if you’re under the impression that viewing things people do in videos can actually make you better in the sack. According to a research study, watching online porn can affect men’s performance in the bedroom. 

The findings of the study states that exposure to porn is desensitising young men to such an extent that they are unable to get excited by ordinary sexual activities. This is the result of over stimulation of dopamine (a neurotransmitter that activates the pleasure centre in the brain) on a continuous basis by watching pornography. 

In the process, a paradoxical effect gets 

generated whereby the brain loses its ability to respond to normal levels of dopamine when it gets used to a higher spike of dopamine. This means that individuals need experiences of an extreme nature to get sexually aroused. 

Let’s cite the case of 31-year-old Abhinav Varma (name changed), an IT professional who’s totally hooked on to watching porn online and has been married since the past four years. “Like most regular guys, I too have been watching porn since I was a teenager. However, with the passage of time there’s such easy availability of a variety of porn on the internet to suit everybody’s tastes. In fact, I prefer watching porn than having sex with my wife,” he confesses. Varma and his wife are seeking marital counselling as a result of his addiction to viewing porn.

As for treatment, Dr Gambhire suggests desensitising the patient, i.e. staying away from porn. Counselling and sometimes medicines too are prescribed.

Life is a Book

Indeed, life is a book.

Take Some Time to Enjoy Life.

 

You've just got to take some time to notice and enjoy the simple, wonderful things in life.

Bear in mind that to "enjoy" isn't about making a fool of yourself or bring momentary destruction.

Just siting, appreciating, smiling, feeling good and be happy hits the spot.

Never forget your family and good friends while you're at it.

 

Adult truth: 5 Lies about Marriage

Dreamy singles think it will make them happy, restless men and women think it will make them feel complete. We take apart the five most popular cons that mar marriage. 

1. I won’t be lonely: Being lonely or having company has nothing to do with getting married. Many loners remain so even after marriage. A long- suffering woman shared her woes; she said that though she was married, she was always lonely. “I never felt that we shared anything. When I spoke, he heard but never listened. On holidays, I never felt that we were together.” Those who are lonely and feel that marriage will be a solution need to analyse and identify what they are feeling. 

2. Anytime sex: Sexual desire and frequency is dependent on libido, compatibility and the acceptance of the word ‘sex’ among both partners. Many partners, who have a deep-seated resentment for each other and are constantly bickering, are not having enough sex. Maybe one of them thought that marriage would satisfy their sexual desires, but that didn’t happen, and so, the blame-game continues in other spheres of life. 

3. I won’t work: This is quite an unrealistic thought, as increasingly, more couples realise that marriage does not mean financial security. Especially women realize that the lifestyle and aspirations one has calls for both spouses to generate income. Financial security is rare if you are not taking care of it yourself; there is no escape route. And if you have not discussed this with your partner, he or she may feel resentful of being considered a meal ticket. 

4. Big happy family: Most of us are conditioned to win over the love and affection of the in-laws. We bend over backwards, expect to be loved immediately and are baffled when the feeling is not reciprocated. The biological imperative of birthing gives rise to a lot of unconditional love and acceptance which is hormonally absent in in-laws. So it is advised to give respect, love and attention, but don’t expect much. 

5. Kids can fix it all: Couples feel that unhappiness in a marriage will be sorted by parenthood. This is another misconception because if there is incompatibility, a child would actually come into an unwelcoming environment and may even be resented. Parenthood should be a well-thought out decision considering aspects such as – Are we ready? Do both of us want children? Do we have all the help we need? Do we agree on core values?
 

Stories and Incidents: Racism in the plane

A 50- something year old white woman arrived at her seat on a crowded flight and immediately didn't want the seat. The seat was next to a black man. Disgusted, ...the woman immediately summoned the flight attendant and demanded a new seat. The woman said "I cannot sit here next to this black man."

The fight attendant said "Let me see if I can find another seat." After checking, the flight attendant returned and stated "Ma'am, there are no more seats in economy, but I will check with the captain and see if there is something in first class."

 

About 10 minutes went by and the flight attendant returned and stated "The captain has confirmed that there are no more seats in economy, but there is one in first class. It is our company policy to never move a person from economy to first class, but being that it would be some sort of scandal to force a person to sit next to an UNPLEASANT person, the captain agreed to make the switch to first class." 

 Before the woman could say anything, the attendant gestured to the black man and said, "Therefore sir, if you would so kindly retrieve your personal items, we would like to move you to the comfort of first class as the captain doesn't want you to sit next to an unpleasant person." Passengers in the seats nearby began to applause while some gave a standing ovation.
** If you are against racism, share this. Side note/ fyi: Since sharing this we've come to learn that this is only a fictional story, but still worthy of posting.

This one the other hand isn't a friction incident. It rocked the global news waves strongly. That is Dasha Zhukova, a Russian editor-in-chief  a magazine editor who posted a picture of herself sitting on a black female model as a chair.
What message was she trying to pass across you make ask.  
Whatever may come across or pop into your head, remember human has a right good life.